Program Planning | Abstinence
So here is the part where you are going to have a moment of relief and realize you have found your answer: The solution to your inability to not change your eating habits in order to have a healthy body, mind and spirit. Or, this is the part where you choose to stay in denial and go further along in your addiction until it kills you or ruins your life.
I know this might sound harsh, but I did not develop this website in order to soothe you and allow you to stay in the horrible bondage you’ve been in for so long. It is bondage and I will give you a brief description of how it is bondage.
In school we all learned about the Laws of Nature that govern the world we live it. You can not dispute them because we can see how they work, and they are perceived by most as scientific fact. Let’s take The Law of Gravity for example. If you decide you don’t believe in this law, you can go up on your roof and jump off. You will get hurt. You still don’t believe it, you can go again each day and think the result will be different, but it won’t. This law still exists every day whether you believe it or not. You will continue to get hurt if you try to deny it; maybe even eventually it will kill you.
Now let’s talk about Food Addiction. There are those of you who do not want to call yourself an addict. Well, get over it! Being an addict doesn’t mean you have to give into your addiction for the rest of your life, it just means you are one if you continue to allow the addictive substance in your life. So in the same way Gravity is a law of nature, so is addiction in the brain of an addict. Our “science” for you is those questions in the assessment portion of this web page. If you answer them HONESTLY, and it puts you in the category of a Food Addict: Congratulations! You are a food addict and We have help for you! Your answers to those questions are your “gravity”. That means if you continue to try diets to get freedom and health back, IT WILL NOT WORK. You can continue to jump off that roof as many times as you want (as many more diets as you want to try), but you will continue to fail and possibly lose your life in the end as a result. Scientifically there is only one solution for a food addict, and it is called Abstinence. Just like an alcoholic must give up drinking alcohol, but does not give up drinking water, tea, coffee, soda, juices, etc.
Food addicts do not abstain from all foods, only the ones that cause the part of the brain that takes control over us. The part that controls will power and cannot stick to a diet or healthy way of life for an ongoing basis. These are called our “trigger” foods. Trigger foods are the same as alcohol to the alcoholic. Once you consume the trigger food (have a small cheat while on a diet or reach your goals and go back to normal foods again) The addict in you takes over and you do NOT have the willpower to say no. The addict will once again take you back to a place of weight gain and bondage. You can stay there, or you can join the thousands of other food addicts who are getting freedom, one day at a time.
This is your time to choose.
DISEASE STAGE: PRE-DISEASE
No sign of abnormal eating or reactions to specific foods. If no dependency or pathology develops, this stage will continue through the person’s entire life
RECOMMENDED ACTIONS: PREVENTION
Education about food addiction. Ongoing checks for signs of chemical dependency. Moderation in eating, especially commonly addictive foods (sugar, caffeine, excess fat)
DISEASE STAGE: EARLY STAGE
Problems with weight management, cycles of weight gain followed by dieting, weight loss, and weight gain again. Occasional binge eating on sugar, excess fat, or volume. Could be early stage food addiction or a normal eater unhealthy choices.
RECOMMENDED ACTION: DETOX AND ABSTINENCE
Identify addictive foods. Eliminate binge and trigger foods. Move through detoxification. This often seems extreme if negative consequences are not yet severe, the beginning of addictive denial.
DISEASE STAGE: MIDDLE STAGE
Frequent binge eating and grazing. Purging or severe restriction may begin. Rationalizing before eating, guilt afterward. Could be advancing food addiction or emotional problem eater with a psychologically based eating disorder.
RECOMMENDED ACTION: 12 STEP RECOVERY/GROUP/COUNSELOR
Participation in a food related 12 step program (Over Eaters anonymous or Grey sheets) and/or work with a food addiction counselor. Assistance with addressing blocks to physical abstinence, especially denial. Develop feeling skills, resolve trauma.
DISEASE STAGE: LATE STAGE
Serious consequences from overeating-morbidly obese, Type 2 diabetes, chronic depression and/or spiritual disillusionment, and eating any way. Food no longer provides comfort, escape, oblivion, etc. Loss of control, increasing tolerance.
RECOMMENDED ACTION: MORE STRUCTURE AND SUPPORT
Participation in a highly structured 12 Step program (Food Addicts in Recovery Anonymous, etc.) Outpatient treatment and/or workshops such as those offered by SHIFT. Abstinence as a spiritual path.
FINAL STAGE:
Severe consequences- hospitalization for heart attacks, suicide attempts, lost jobs or inability to work, ruined relationships, treatment and/or intestinal surgery followed by relapse, housebound or confined to nursing home.
RECOMMENDED ACTION: PRIMARY INPATIENT OR RESIDENTIAL TREATMENT
Given the lack of any hospital-based inpatient treatment for food addiction, alternatives include Turning Point of Tampa, Milestones, Shades of Hope, SHIFT year long Living in Abstinence Program. This is sometimes insufficient